Should I go with the new employer or stay at my current employer? There is no one right answer to this question. A lot of this will be in the “it depends” category. One thing you must do is go back and assess the reason(s) that you decided to look for a new job in the first place. Will your issues be addressed by the counter offer?

In marketing, we talk about the “value proposition” and what do you bring, what do you stand for? Very few people, I think, do the hard work of figuring that out for themselves. When you have that value proposition and you know exactly what it is, everything you do becomes a lot easier.

Questions for this addition of Ask The Career Coach.

1) How do I deal with the shame of being fired from my job because of performance?

2) You are late for your job interview: What excuse do you give?

3) How do I avoid being rejected for a job due to being overqualified?

2) What interview questions are job candidates consistently least prepared to answer?

3) What should you say to an interviewer if your are late?

I highly advise you to have your own support network while going through a job search. These people (and yes, it may not be the same person for all needs) can listen to your frustrations, act as guides when you need advice as well as your emotional support through this grueling process.